Family & Friends · top-level circle

Family & Friends World

The everyday social fabric.

Extended kin. Chosen kin. The neighbor who waters your plants. The friend who is more like a sibling than your sibling. This is where the village shows up in ordinary time — the Tuesday-night-dinner version, not the emergency version.

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What Family & Friends World Holds

Thursday Table

The recurring gathering, fictional and real. Open seat at the table; everyone brings something; conversation rather than performance.

Chosen Kin Tiles

Your Life Board doesn't ask for blood. The 25 slots are for the people who actually show up — including the ones you chose, not just the ones you inherited.

Neighborhood Threads

Geo-anchored circles for the block, the building, the cul-de-sac. Quiet by default — useful when the dog's loose or the package is on the wrong porch.

The Soup Pot

The little gifts that keep the village warm. Drop off, ask for, pass along. No accounting. No reciprocity tracking. Generosity ecology, in practice.

Kept Friendships

The friends you've had for thirty years — and the rituals that kept them. Daisy notices when one's gone quiet. Pings you, gently. Doesn't make you feel guilty.

The Open Invite

Standing weekly thing. Game night. Coffee Saturday. Mass on Sunday with the in-laws. The structures that make showing up easy.

This is the Default World

Most members live in Family & Friends World first. It's where the everyday rhythms happen — the calendar most people open most often, the circle most people post in most. Other Worlds (FAM, VA, Elder, Parents...) layer on for the more specific roles you play.

Thursday Tableflagship recurring circle — open seat, regular rhythm
Games & Good Companyweekly low-stakes gatherings — board games, walks, cards
Soup & Casserolethe give-and-receive circle — drop off, ask for, pass along
Neighborhood (your geo)the people within a 10-minute walk

How It Differs From FAM

FAM is your 25 closest — the load-bearing kin. Family & Friends is the wider weave — the dozens of relationships that keep daily life rich without each being existential. Both matter; the platform holds both, separately.

Most members will have FAM-side circles with strict privacy (Life Board, RID-restricted moments) and Family-Friends-side circles with looser, more social defaults. The line is fuzzy on purpose — you choose where each relationship sits.

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